tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1368368227543381307.post4981475642705885920..comments2023-02-04T16:12:26.583+00:00Comments on George Reviews: Fifty Shades Of GreyMrGBHhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16920055352270996203noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1368368227543381307.post-56284656902363686042015-07-03T09:36:58.498+01:002015-07-03T09:36:58.498+01:00I have since been told about the traffic light sys...I have since been told about the traffic light system. I guess if it's a group thing with one dom master, then it makes sense, but I still think it could be confusing, especially to someone who's completely knew to it.<br />Not that it matters anyway, since she never even uses it.MrGBHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16920055352270996203noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1368368227543381307.post-502086547901561852015-07-03T00:03:40.972+01:002015-07-03T00:03:40.972+01:001. Eric Carle wrote The Very Hungry Caterpillar
2....1. Eric Carle wrote The Very Hungry Caterpillar<br />2. Depends on the contract and why they want the contract signed and more importantly how you feel about signing a contract into being in a relationship with them (in regards to photo caption)<br />3. Slavery contracts do exist and people who get into that kind of relationship KNOW exactly what they're signing up for in general. May not be legally enforceable/binding but within the context of the relationship how the two (or more) people deal with it they kind of are.<br />4. In regards to safewords, the stoplight system is the generic system people use. Especially in dungeons. Because if everyone has their own safeword a DM (dungeon monitor) isn't going to know that Pineapple means stop. However, if they hear someone shouting RED they know to rush over and make sure the scene is stopped. And for some of us it's a lot easier to remember red, yellow, green than anything else. Red is stop (and depending on the dynamic and person it's either stop everything or stop the thing you're currently doing which is why tops will usually stop and ask for clarification from the bottom which it is). Yellow is two things generally: slow down or I'm reaching up to my limit before I yell red (and that can be either intensity or implement. Sometimes entire scene). Green is everything's good keep going and is less commonly heard. Yellow and Red are the two that most get used. In regards to things like "hand me the red pillow" unless that's actually your safeword phrase, people aren't going to get confused. Difference between a phrase and telling someone to stop (unless as mentioned the phrase is your stop). And you're usually going to hear the difference in tone with it as well.<br />5. Cable ties. While yes, generally they are a DEFINITE NO. IF you know what you're doing with them and really paying attention to your partner(s) then they can be used safely but it takes a lot of focus and stuff. But for him? Definite fuck no.<br />6. The Georgia thing. I can see a partner getting mad if you haven't told them and you spring it on them as you're packing. But a healthy relationship (which this totally isn't for multitudes of reasons) will have you saying "hey partner/s, I'm going on a x long trip to Georgia to visit my mum" and your partner(s) saying: "I'm sad you're going but I hope you have fun and I'll see you when you get back" or something along those lines.<br />7. He's not a responsible dom or a responsible sadist. I know plenty of those and unless tears are part of it they'll stop for tears and if you look like you're not enjoying it (or your body is saying that you're not enjoying it).<br />and that's all I have to say other than sorry you had to put up with this shit.....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com